A One-Sided Relationship
Have you ever experienced the sting of a one-sided relationship? You know, the kind where a friend only comes around when they need something? Well, let me tell you about my personal journey with God. It used to be just like that until 2006. I realized that I hadn't been spending quality time with Him. I would only reach out when I was desperate, relying on my unwavering faith that He would always hear me and provide answers. It was definitely a one-sided relationship. There's a quote that I've encountered countless times, and it beautifully encapsulates this sentiment: "If someone treats you like an option, leave them like a choice." This quote has been transformed into numerous creative memes, conveying the idea that we deserve love that is reciprocated. Thankfully, God will never abandon us; rather, it is we who may choose to stray from Him or seek Him only in times of need. Since 2006, I have slowly…deepened my relationship with Him, a journey prompted by a deceleration in my life when I was diagnosed with cancer. Spending many days confined to my sickbed provided ample time for self-reflection and introspection. During this period, I underwent significant personal growth, starting a gratitude journal to count my blessings each day. My yearning to love Him, express gratitude, seek forgiveness, place my trust in Him, and endeavor to please Him has only intensified with time. It is an unceasing desire to bring happiness to His divine presence.
When I received the news of my stage 4 cancer recurrence back in 2010, it marked another moment of immense personal growth for me. I was filled with anger, knowing I had limited time left. Recently, I shared a post reflecting on that challenging period in my life. Today, I feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude and blessings as I contemplate the unwavering love and grace that God bestows upon us, regardless of our capacity to reciprocate that love. He loves us unconditionally and yearns for a deep connection with us, patiently waiting until we are ready. I've come to realize, like many others who seek Him only in times of need, that we miss out on the boundless beauty that awaits us. God will never abandon us, even when we prioritize Him as a last resort rather than a primary focus. Each and every one of us is invited to experience a profound and affectionate relationship with Him. Through His teachings in Scripture, He offers us the ultimate hope and assures us of His unwavering love. As you draw nearer to Him, the remarkable signs of His love will manifest in every aspect of your life.
Discovering ways to connect with God is a remarkable journey filled with incredible rewards. Imagine never feeling alone, knowing that everything happening in your day is not solely in your hands, but rests in His loving guidance. By putting God first, the possibilities become endless, making even the impossible possible. Picture starting your mornings with devotion, prayer, and a warm cup of coffee in His presence. The empowering feeling that follows is simply indescribable. Devoting just half an hour to God each morning leaves you feeling not only empowered but also never alone. Embrace the joy, inspiration, and unwavering support that awaits you by spending precious moments with Him. Trust that dedicating time to God is an investment that yields unimaginable blessings.
God will still love you the same if you don’t pray or devote time to Him. He won’t punish you either, but He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him. (Hebrews 11:6)
Connecting with God helps us understand His purpose for our lives. Ask Him daily for guidance on how to impact not just yourself, but also those around you. Consider posting words of encouragement on social media to help those who are struggling. Prioritizing God enhances all relationships with family and friends. Choose Him first and trust Him completely. He is the source of strength and courage when we need it most, and He knows what's best for our lives - even if it looks or feels different than what we had hoped for ourselves.
If you ever feel disconnected from God, seek forgiveness and know that He will forgive you. Embrace the gift of His forgiveness and stay connected through prayer, devotions, and Bible apps. Join bible study or faith-building groups for fellowship - this allows us to be vulnerable in a community that loves God as much as you do. Remember, God is always present and desires a close relationship with each of us. Experiencing His presence can inspire transparency in others to walk closely with Him.
